On the cover: Passion & Purpose
Aimee & John Oats
Photo: Michael Alan Ross
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Highlights from the January/February Issue
Carolyn Smith Bryant visits with friends Aimee and John Oates.
Text: Carolyn Smith Bryant
Photo: Michael Alan Ross
Cover Story: Passion & Purpose
Brad Ramsey transforms a thoroughly modern retreat in Sunset, South Carolina
Text: Melissa Mahanes
Photo: Inspiro8, Rebecca Lehde, Cameron Powell
Spectacular Sunset
Dutch Treat
Becky Suss brings a new perspective to her upcoming show at Cheekwood
Text: Melissa Mahanes
Photo: Courtesy of CHeekwood
Overcoming the 7 Psychological Hurdles of the First-Generation Wealthy.
Text: Greg Luken
Wealth Management
All Together Now
A Top Chef champion pens a new guide to entertaining in true Southern style.
Text: Melissa Mahanes
Photo: Antonis Achilleos
Sophisticated Wedding: Sophie Scott + Preston Howard
Preston and Sophie met during their individual Spring Breaks in 2018. Sophie was attending SMU and Preston, The University of Texas, when they ended up at the same resort in the Bahamas and hit it off immediately.
Photos: Natalie Watson
Simply The Best
The Ariston offers a timeless respite for cigar lovers and cocktail aficionados alike.
Text: Sarah Hawksley
Photos: The Aristin & Victoria Quirk
Spell? Check!
Q-Less is a catchy game with a catchy jingle to boot.
Compiled by: Melissa Mahanes
Photo: Courtesy of PLA
Sophisticated Society, Presented by Genesis Diamonds -
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Society Calendar
Events of note in January, February & March
Photo: Greg Smit
Photo: Jason Bilher
Photo: Sarina Kurrimbukus
Photo: Charlie Mahanes
Photo: Charlie Mahanes
Photo: Brenda Batey
Photo: Daniel Meigs
Photo: Rally Foundation
Photo: Nicholas Tavares
Photo: Jason Bilher
Photo: Charlie Mahanes
Photo: Courtesy Nashville Ballet
Photo: Charlie Mahanes
Nashville recently lost another outstanding member of our community, and I lost a great friend. Dr. Michael Spalding was a distinguished physician, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and someone I owe a great deal to.
I met Mike quite a few years ago at a charity function at his beautiful Tuscan-style home on Belle Meade Boulevard, which he shared with his lovely wife, Mary. At the time, I was a private banker and invited Mike to lunch to get to know him and discuss private wealth management. We quickly became good friends who enjoyed lunch or a cocktail togethernow and again. When I visited him at his home, hewould say, "Bar's always open!”
Text: Dave Mahanes
Image: Dr. Michael & Mary Spalding
From the Publisher
Get To Know Us
At Sophisticated Living, we are dedicated and passionate about all the finer things life has to offer. Whether your interests are close to home or in far-flung places, each issue shares highlights of the good life in Nashville and beyond.
Dave Mahanes, Publisher & Melissa Mahanes, Editor-In-Chief
Melissa and Dave have been married for 26 years and moved from NewYork to Nashville 18 years ago. Melissa is originally from Greenwich, CT, graduated with B.A. in Fine Arts from Vanderbilt University, and is also a graduate of Sotheby’s Fine Arts Program. During her career, Melissa worked for Sotheby’s and contemporary art dealers Larry Gagosian and Anthony d’Offay in New York. Her graphic design company, Kalligraphia, has designed invitations for many popular Nashville fundraisers. Since moving to Nashville, Melissa has been very involved in the Nashville community serving on the boards of Nashville Ballet and Sexual AssaultCenter, as well as Co-Chairing The Mad Hatter, Ballet Ball, Symphony Ball, and Swan Ball Auction.
Dave grew up in Nashville, attended Ensworth and MBA, graduated with a B.A. in Economics from Duke University, and received his M.B.A. from Vanderbilt University Owen Graduate School of Management. Dave spent most of his career as a banker in New York and Nashville. Also very active in the Nashville community, Dave has served on the boards of Belle Meade Plantation and Equal Chance for Education, the advisory boards of W.O. Smith School, and the Nashville Symphony as well as serving as a Deacon for the First Presbyterian Church.
Melissa and Dave look forward to bringing their creativity and passion for the arts, the finer things that Nashville has to offer, and the Middle Tennessee non-forprofit community to Sophisticated Living Nashville and Sophisticated Giving.
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